01/11/2026
SLEEP DEBT AND DREAMS
Everyday life with a baby from a man's perspective. Honestly and seriously, but not too seriously.
YOU, ME AND HIM
What was meant to be a one-night stand dragged on a bit, and now it's been ten years, a wedding, and at least for now one toothless little troublemaker. Here's the crew around whom the whole story revolves.
WHAT WILL YOU FIND HERE?
Fatherhood, everyday life with a baby, relationships, and everything else that comes your way when one little person turns the lives of two adults upside down. Don't bother looking here for parenting guides, pastel hues, or glossy photos — what you'll find is honest and straightforward writing about a father's worries, sorrows, and futile hopes.
FROM PAPACITO'S QUILL
While the day's most important customer is sleeping — for once — Papacito writes.
Everyday life with a baby, worries, sorrows, and futile hopes in the midst of parental leave. And maybe even after that.
A new post every Friday.
So the toothless troublemaker's therapist can someday also read my side of the story.
Loading a Papacito miscalculation...
Parenthood has produced a few other miscalculations along the way.
And somehow, they just keep coming...
You can also submit your own parenting miscalculations.
"When a person is asleep, nothing happens to them.
But when they're awake, they might catch a fish, for example." -Eino Leino
Actually, Matti Nykänen